I recommend this article so much. I wish I could amplify it more.
“It is white people’s responsibility to be less fragile; people of color don’t need to twist themselves into knots trying to navigate us as …right wrongs
I’m guilty of not always calling out racist family members in particular. I know their opinions and that saying something won’t change their minds. The ones who were the most racist have passed away, but those who still walk among us sometimes do ugly things without even realizing how prejudiced they are.